The mounting allegations of sexual misconduct against producer Harvey Weinstein haven’t just galvanised discussions about assault in Hollywood. They have also compelled millions of women to speak up against the harassment they’ve faced in their own lives. Two small words — #MeToo — have taken on huge significance, and become a battle cry for anyone who has suffered at the hands of a sexual aggressor. Among those courageous enough to speak out on social media in recent days are pop icon Lady Gaga, model Suki Waterhouse, gymnastics legend Tatiana Gutsu and actress Alyssa Milano, who is widely credited with starting the campaign.
Eurovision stars live and work in the real world and are not immune to harassment. And now a spate of Melodifestivalen singers are adding their voices to the chorus of women exposing the scale and magnitude of the problem.
Carola: “I was 11 years old”
Carola, one of Sweden’s most revered singers of all time, shared her harrowing incident on the Gry & Anders med vänner radio programme on Mix Megapol this morning. Her commentary has subsequently been shared in Swedish newspaper Expressen.
Carola, now 51, says that she suffered abuse while at a sports camp for children.
She says that a woman lured her and a friend to her hotel room and locked the door.
“I thought she would hit us,” the singer remembered. “Then she took off our clothes and touched us. I grabbed my friend and said ‘now we run’. I do not think I told anyone until I got older.”
Speaking to the Expressen newspaper, she said she worried the woman may have a weapon.
“As soon as we got inside the door, she closed the door and locked it. Then everything became serious. It was really unpleasant. It was horrifying indeed. You did as she said and we would take turns and sit on her,” she says.
“She was holding us firmly and violated us. She threatened us. I was afraid she had a gun.”
Wiktoria and Molly Sandén say #MeToo
Sexual harassment and bullying can leave the victim feeling helpless and ashamed. That shame — and sometimes fear of reprisals — can lead to a lifetime of silence.
But younger stars are hoping to end that cycle right now.
Wiktoria suggested there is help and hope for everyone.
On Tuesday she shared an Instagram image of the words “Me Too” along with the caption “Never Alone.”
Melodifestivalen veteran Molly Sandén went even further, sharing a snap of herself in a red t-shirt that read “Body Rights”.
She added a lengthy caption recounting an incident that happened when she was 14 — and which left her suffering from stress and anxiety for several years.
#Metoo Tänkte först inte posta detta. Ville bara skriva ner det för min egen skull. Men när jag va klar kändes det viktigt att dela på nåt vis. Det kändes viktigt för 14åriga Molly som SJUKT NOG gick runt med ångest i flera år pga den här kvällen. Som skämdes över att hon tillåtit sig själv tappa kontrollen och bli full. Hon som trodde att det kanske va ”rätt åt henne” att hon blev behandlad så. —?—?—?—?—?—?—?—?—?—————— Ett av mina allra första gig. En av mina allra första fyllor. Vi sitter å kollar film i turnébussen efter konserten och han ser till att fylla på mitt glas med vin tills hela boxen är tom. ”Du är väl inte en sån där tråkig eller? Vi firar ju” säger han. En bit in i filmen tar han plötsligt ett hårt grepp om min nacke, vrider mitt huvud och trycker in tungan i munnen på mig samtidigt som han tar på mig. Jag försöker putta bort honom men då tar han istället min hand och tvingar ner den i sina kalsonger. Allting händer så fort och allting snurrar. Jag har inte ens fattat hur full jag hade blivit. Eller drogad? Jag mår illa. Vill ut och spy. Men jag är helt paralyserad… det känns precis som en sån där mardröm när man skriker utan att det kommer nåt ljud. Jag försöker dra tillbaka min hand men han klämmer bara hårdare och viskar ”Lite turné-mys bara. Alla gör det. Ingen kommer få veta nåt”… I helvete heller ditt jävla svin! Nu vet typ bara 500 000 pers BODY RIGHTS???? #metoo #bodyrights #elise1933
Following one of her first gigs, she was watching a movie on a tour bus while an unnamed man served her wine.
“A bit into the movie, he suddenly takes a tight grip on my neck, twists my head and pushes his tongue into my mouth while he is touching me.”
“I try to put him away, but instead he takes my hand and forces it into his underwear. Everything happens so fast and everything is spinning.”
She added that she felt “sick” and “paralysed”, and that he said everyone does it and no one will ever know.
But with Molly and others using their vast platforms to inspire others, soon many more will.
We applaud these stars — and the many others — who have gathered the courage to share their difficult stories. It’s only by raising awareness and letting others know it is OK to speak up that we can start to turn the tide.